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- Uswa Khan
- Aug 25, 2023
- 2 min read
*Daughter's relationship and our behavior🔮*
One Hafiz has been studying with me, his relatives did not give him a relationship because he did not have his own house.
A bandi of Allah gave him the relationship of a daughter, so she started calling him his sister-in-law
What have you seen in it?
So-and-so boy is good-looking and has his own house. Why did you give him a relationship?
He answered
I know it's not his house, but I have seen that:
The son is a reciter of the Quran, a prayerful person, and a good person
If Allah wills, the house will be built
By the grace of Allah, they got married and the husband and wife went to Madinah
After returning from there, he built a house and also a factory.
Allah has also blessed him with children and his wife is more peaceful than her other sisters
1: Nowadays some people do not sell girls in marriage
Millions of jewels, cash, houses, property and expenses etc
Those who do this are not well-wishers of the daughter, they are digging a hole for her from which she will not be able to get out for the rest of her life
2: Before marrying a daughter, one should not look at wealth and wealth, but should see that:
¹ A boy is a lover, not forced into marriage
² He has good intentions and is the owner of good habits and attitudes. He sits with good people.
³ earns is not nakto
Even if the son of an earner is poor, he becomes rich one day, but a thief destroys even a house full of wealth.
3: A girl should not be greedy for her in-laws or make any demands from them
Instead of keeping an eye on high quality clothes, fine make-up and jewelry etc., one should look at a loving husband.
4: A blessed marriage is one in which expenses are less
And the expenses can be less if the wife also contributes
A happy wife must cooperate and make her marriage a blessing.
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